Postpartum CustomsBaby on Grandma's back
Immediately after birth, a woman may go into a specially prepared tent with aromatic steam of lemon grass & other herbs meant to assist with uterine involution (return to the normal size). The woman dresses in warm clothing.
The post partum recovery period is variable. It can last for up to 1-2 months. Often, getting back to work is a priority so this time may be shorter.
Food and gifts are brought to home following birth as a way to honor the new baby and the family.
A woman's mother or mother-in-law may stay with the family for 3 months to assist with care of the baby & home so the new mother can rest and recover.
The names are given to the children by the mother, father or families combined and always have significant meaning.
Mothers eat only vegetables & rice for 3-5 months after birth. It is believed that certain smells & ingested foods can cause harm to the mother so meats are avoided. Absolutely no beef or pork is consumed. Fish is an important source of protein.
For 3 days after birth, offerings might be made at a temple by family members to ensure the health of the baby. Babies are believed to be very vulnerable for the first 3 days of life.
A gold bracelet is placed on the ankle of a baby girl for protection (if not real gold, then it has to be gold color).
After the 3rd day of a child's life, the family will visit a monk. Here a woven cotton bracelet is placed on the baby's wrist and a blessing is given by the monk.
Baby's should not be exposed to rain. It is believed that they will become ill. If it's raining, an infant stays indoors or is covered well so that they don't get wet.