DDeeDee, thank you for this email. I have to tell you the truth. I am only on this site to find a woman that I can share the rest of my life with. You mention someone to take care of you. I would do that but I would also expect you to take care of me. My relationship needs to be "mutual. Both doing for each other. I have met several women on this site that like to play games. They only want to chat and send messages until they meet someone else better. If I can find someone that is honest and says the truth then I will leave this site and devote all of my time to that woman. So far....I have not been successful. I have met a lot that want to be "friends". I hope you understand me better now. Kiss to you.