The ceremonies of the Brunei Malay Wedding are as follows:
1.Ceremony of Berjarum-jarum / Bersuruh(meeting among the families + preparation for engagement period)
2. Ceremony of Malam Berjaga-jaga
3. Ceremony of Mengantar Tanda & Berian
4. Ceremony of Akad Nikah
5. Ceremony of Bebadak Mandi
6. Ceremony of Menghantar Badak & Pacar
7. Ceremony of Naik Kahwin/ Bersanding
8. Ceremony of Malam Berbadak/ Masuk Berbadak
9. Ceremony of Berambil-ambilan
10. Ceremony of Mulih 3 Hari