Thanks for your email. well, About

Thanks for your email. well, About my personality,I feel so blessed because a thought was channel to my direction.  Every journey is set out with a well defined destination in mind and it takes courage and conscious determination to arrive there. At this point, it obvious that am  willing to set out for this journey of faith and it’s imperative that the desired destination should be well defined. I like to make something Clear as you read this. My intention should be made known early enough so that you could be able to know  where am heading .
 The only reason I am here  and ready to devote time to make all the necessary communication is because I want a partner and desire to get closer to and see if there’s chemistry to yoke heart together because nothing works until someone work on it.
 What I am looking for is someone who will get to know me, who like me.. is tired of being lonely, who desires a sincere relationship, who is willing to love again irrespective of the painful memories of the past., who is willing to merge her soul with mine and her heart with mine. Someone to share and spend the rest of my life with.
You see, I feel there are few very basic but essential elements of a relationship.. (1)  Identifying the need to be in a relationship (2) decision and readiness to contribute to it success 3) HONESTY (4) TRUST (5) MUTUAL RESPECT, (6)DEVOTIONAL COMMITMENT WITH A READINESS TO MAKE SACRIFICES. knowing fully well that a Gold must go through fire before it can be purified and graded
 
They are also to a degree sequential.  I may choose First honesty and then respect.  They go hand in hand and without them any type of relationship; business, personal, family, whatever, is bound to fail.  Anyone who is dishonest cannot be respected.  Without  showing respect, He or she is unlikely to be treated with honesty.  Those are fundamental to trust which like respect is earned because honesty was first and was given.  When trust is built and respect is earned and they are given and shared, then love and happiness is inevitable.  When your love and trust were given, it’s more important than receiving a treasure. Then commitment becomes a part of the relationship.  At that point, you promise and believe it will be forever.  You can do this because you love and trust the other person and are committed to making a life to share together.
 I will try to be more specific.i do not smoke and drink once in a while.i do not criticize people who smoke or drink.  First, no one is perfect, especially me.  I know this though; when the right person or person that seems right comes into your life you will know it.  A connection happens and you just can't, or won't let go of them.  Your whole life changes and all of the emptiness begin to fill up.  It starts with the first touch, the first time you look into each others eyes, the very first time for everything becomes a moment to remember.  Sometimes it happens quickly, other times it takes years.  I don't pretend to have the wisdom to explain or understand.  This is certain, if you observe consciously, you will find when a person is wrong for you.  I truly believe it is easier to know if someone is not right for you than to know if someone is...I guess I’ve tried.
 Of course you now know what my purpose of being here is, and that I am willing to nurture this friendship to grow in the direction of a rewarding and a long lasting if not and everlasting relationship in all sincerity. Now are you in the same train?
Regards