With me that implies the woman - after the initial shock of how different it is what I'm expecting - can embrace her femininity and her innate tendency to only focus on being the best woman she can be for the man of her choosing. If you are honest to yourself and really listen to what your heart is telling you, which women doesn't want to have the burden of fighting for herself, making every decision, balancing ambitions and personal happiness as well as chasing "Mr. Right" lifted of her shoulders, replaced by the knowledge of having found her place and role in life, simply rules how she can please her man, feeling how much she's sexually desired, getting the chance to fully and uninhibitedly embrace her sexuality, the peace of mind that comes with knowing she only has to care about one person, the opportunity of bouncing ideas off of somebody with more experience and the relieve of not having to make decisions, only doing her best in what she's asked to do...?