I have lived in my house now for 8

I have lived in my house now for 8 years with my husband and 3 children, we know our house is haunted, we have always heard strange noises, voices, things missing etc. Our ghosts or spirits have never been violent or scary and we have learned to cohabitate, but for the last year we noticed that when one of us leaves for weekends away or vacations, the activity starts up more than usual. This last time we left for a week long vacation, the girl who watched our house refused to stay at our home. She said one day she came in to feed the animals and they were all spooked and all the kitchen cabinets were all wide opened, and now has refused to watch our house again.

Well we have decided to move, not because of our ghosts but for work. We started packing and now the activity is through the roof. They are keeping one of my daughters up at night, I hear steps around my room, and woke up to a shadow standing over me. I have never felt afraid but I'm starting to.

Are they mad at us? How do we handle this? Any ideas? We have the feeling that our spirits are that of the previous owners. We have always said that we have had the feeling that the house needed us. We have had many wonderful and hard times in this house, but its always been the hub for everyone to come, and people have always said that when they come over they feel at home, and for some people and children this home has been a safe haven for them. We have a lot of love and respect for this house and it will be missed very much, but we don't want to piss off the spirits...