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want you to know that I love you.

Thanks for telling me where you stand. I don’t see any way for this to work out; I don’t think you or your parents understand what kind of burden they are asking us to take on. I know you’re more than willing to work, but until you get the permit to work and then get through school you can’t work, I don’t believe you will be able to work at all the first year; if we’re lucky you will be able to start school within the first year you’re here, but I wouldn’t expect it, I think Tik started her second year here.

It took Cliff and Tik a couple years to recover from the $5,000 they paid your parents only because they were able to live with his parents (a luxury we won’t have) until they could save and afford a place to live. If it took them a couple years with help to recover from $5,000 how long do you think it will take you and me to recover from $13,000 without any help from anyone? Every month I pay 53,480baht, for the basics rent, water, power, phone, auto, insurance, and food. When you get here our monthly debts will be around 61,280baht. And that total isn’t counting going to a pub, or watching a movie, or just wasting money.

Your parents want us to give them 400,000 Baht, (The value of a new automobile, or a nice down payment on a house) so they can throw a single party that they will be the sole benefiters from. I can throw an amazing party for $5,000 and they want to throw one for $13,000

I understand that we have different customs, the only reason we are even having this discussion is because I love you, and I do understand about different customs. But I have always hated the custom of selling your daughter. I understand you have to respect other people’s customs, up till those customs become a burden. But in my country parents don’t dig a financial hole for their children that will take years to get out of. When
Maybe we not have much time together that why you really know who i am and how i am?
But for me I know i love you thought you are a good guy, very nice guy and you will not let something happend to me when i'll be there. all i want from you just