I dont know that I have actively thought about my late wife in terms a sort of'
' betrayal' ' of our love . No I am pretty sure I have not. Otherwise I would not be on TLL . My wife died some 15 years ago at least. For a time , yes iit was very sad and badly impacted my life but I have recovered and as is often said ' life goes on '.
My reason for using TLL is probably that of many men of a certain age . Loneliness and the desire for companionship coupled with the hope of a warm love .
Other than that , I feel my actions have been typical of an older man - a degree of caution not to be thought of as ' dirty' in any way ut comscious that some people do think that.
I will be happy to meet with you . The possble problem seems more one of geography as you live a long way from my Thai home near Pak Chong .
If you wish to meet me I wil be happpy to meet you . I think you know I will arrive in Bkok January22-- at about 3 pm.
If you wish me to send you the full detail or suggest another time and place to meet please do , tell me .
I send you all good wishes and hope to hear from you soon David