Wedding ceremony in China must be prepared to groom . In general, the popular and take Chinese tangerine " Sanghi " We were pleased that the event is held every even number is the 44 or 84 may be set at a certain fresh pork . Or the groom may put money into an envelope instead of a vital but not all. Groom wedding cake or dessert is a sweet color to 4 color or 5 colors that give money to their relatives and pack four pack of the parents of the groom to the bride 's parents .