_ People have not been there to meet my emotional needs.
2. _______ I haven't gotten enough love and attention.
3. _______ For the most part, I haven't had someone to depend on for advice and emotional support.
4. _______ Most of the time, I haven't had someone to nurture me, share him/herself with me, or care
deeply about everything that happens to me.
5. _______ For much of my life, I haven't had someone who wanted to get close to me and spend a lot
of time with me.
6. _______ In general, people have not been there to give me warmth, holding, and affection.
7. _______ For much of my life, I haven't felt that I am special to someone.
8. _______ For the most part, I have not had someone who really listens to me, understands me, or is
tuned into my true needs and feelings.
9. _______ I have rarely had a strong person to give me sound advice or direction when I'm not sure
what to do.
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10. ______ I worry that the people I love will die soon, even though there is little medical reason to
support my concern.
11. ______ I find myself clinging to people I'm close to, because I'm afraid they'll leave me