PLEASE READ MY PROFILE BEFORE YOU S

PLEASE READ MY PROFILE BEFORE YOU SEND ME A MESSAGE. THAT'S WHY I WROTE IT. THANKS ;-).

Hi,

I've been living in Thailand for 9 years and have made lots of great friends over here. It's truly the place I call home.

I'm a social entrepreneur and love coaching. I'm looking to meet some great FRIENDS ONLY to connect with so, if you're interested in becoming great FRIENDS in real life, ... keep reading :-).

If you like arts, are witty, bring out the best in people, like to read and have interesting conversations, love self-development and attending seminars, ... if you're a people's person.... we may have at least a few things in common... . If so, go right on, send me a message and ++ tell me something about yourself ++ that is not listed yet on your profile to get our conversation started.

In my coaching, a lot of people ask me for dating advice.

Here's my first tip: I don't believe people should even use the term "dating" because it adds unneeded stress on the people to start a relationship while they may be the worst match in the world. I do believe in taking some time and "getting to know people". When two people click, words are no longer necessary and they will know that they are a match :-).

= I will not reply to each message. Read below why =

** I'm not here to just chat and keep busy ** whenever I have free time. I believe that we all have a limited amount of time and we should use it well. If we click, we'll meet up, talk and do some interesting things instead of living behind a PC screen ;-).

** I don't reply to just "Hi" messages: ** One says you only have one chance to make a LASTING FIRST IMPRESSION. If you want us to talk, talk so that we instantly know if we click or not and can get the conversation going. You don't want me to just reply "Hi" back, do you?

** I'm looking for people living in/around Bangkok max 5km **. Sometimes I get the question. "What's wrong with people outside of Bangkok???" There's nothing wrong with people outside of Bangkok. I know great people outside of Bangkok but since I live in Bangkok (8 years now) I'm mainly looking for friends that I can see in real life, instead of only having chats with.

** Please put up a photograph - No Photo = No reply **. If you use this site, you use it to make contact with somebody. It shows respect (and courage) to display your photograph online, but that is what is needed to establish a trustworthy relationship. There is no use posting fake photographs or none at all because in the end people just waste their time (and yours)

** I don't reply to messages that say "Give me your email address and I'll send you my pictures". ** Why? My email address is of value to me and I only give it to people that I feel that respect me and that I hope will keep my trust. I don't want to receive jokes or spam or forward mail on it. I use it for the times when I cannot talk to the person on the phone or in real life; so if you want to know me (which requires that I see you as well), put up your picture - you will be much happier with the results ;-)

Now, if you think... "WOW! What does he think?" then I'm OK with that because well, .. "What do I think?":

I LOVE people and I don't look down on anyone. In fact it is my job and ambition to help people get more successful in whatever it is that they REALLY want to do in life.

The first lesson that I teach them is: "What do you want?". Most people don't know, but it's the most important question you can ever ask yourself. Even more so, when you are looking for a partner, because if you don't know who you are, or what kind of person you are looking for (that would match with you), then how can you ever expect to find him or her? ;-).

Take some time to define what it is that you are looking for in your match, and what it is that you would like to do with him/her. Dream about it, ... write it down, ... write about it on what you want and above all... don't be shy about what kind of person you are.... It is only by speaking out , asking and by taking action... that you can make your dreams come true.

On a side note, … if it's hard for you to keep your clothes on, on pictures you post here or on other sites, just think about what kind of guys you will attract. What is the only thing they will be interested in? Right? So, if you're like that, don't even send me a message. I'm not interested.