you gotta be an idiot to say that this song is about getting in someone's pants! That's the opposite of what he's singing about!! What he's trying to say is that sometimes you can just be there for someone, some relationships aren't meant to be sexual or last long, he just wants to be there with her in that moment, to know who she is..He says "i don't want to go home with you, don't want to steal your covers" that should be clear enough.. he sings about wanting to get to know this woman, and let her decide her life.. Not everything needs to be so dirty, God people!