A big difference between Israel and Palestinians: Israelis can say bad things about Israel and still be free to travel. They can write anti-Israel books and sing anti-Israel songs, yet other Israelis will not drag them behind a car down the streets of Tel-Aviv. They might not get invited to the parties, but they will not be killed.
Whisper a bad word about Hamas and they might toss you from a tall building.
These differences are not subtle.